Why does it hurt so much for girls the first time?

Why does it hurt so much for girls the first time? ——Analysis of dual factors of physiology and psychology

Recently, "female pain during first sexual intercourse" has become a hot topic on social media, with many women sharing their personal experiences and discussing the scientific reasons behind it. This article combines hot discussions and medical data from the entire Internet in the past 10 days, conducts analysis from multiple perspectives such as physiological structure, psychological factors, and social cognition, and provides structured data reference.

1. Statistics of hot topics across the entire network (last 10 days)

2. Analysis of physiological causes

1.Differences in hymen structure: About 70% of women have an annular hymen, which may cause pain due to tearing during first sexual intercourse, but individual differences are significant (data source: "Obstetrics and Gynecology" 9th edition).

2.Vaginismus: Tension causes the pelvic floor muscles to contract involuntarily. Clinical data shows that about 15-20% of women experience varying degrees of spasmodic pain.

3. Psychological and social factors

1.anticipatory anxiety: A social media survey shows that 68% of women experience psychological stress due to "pain rumors" before having sex for the first time, and the actual pain may be amplified.

2.Not well prepared: Medical experts pointed out that objective factors such as insufficient foreplay and insufficient lubrication accounted for 54% of pain cases.

4. Medical advice and hot topics

1.Breaking the inevitability of pain: Experts from the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Peking Union Medical College Hospital emphasized that about 30% of women have no obvious pain for the first time, and individual differences are far greater than the general perception.

2.Proper pain management: A recent popular science video on Douyin recommended the use of six major methods, including progressive attempts and communication and feedback mechanisms, and received more than 2 million likes.

3.changes in social attitudes: A hot post on Xiaohongshu pointed out that the younger generation pays more attention to "voluntary, comfortable, and safe" first experiences rather than traditional pain narratives.

Conclusion:Pain is not inevitable. Understanding body reactions, being fully prepared, and establishing equal communication are the keys. It is recommended that women seek medical consultation based on their own circumstances to avoid excessive anxiety due to online information.